The idea of ‘Emotional intelligence’ and ‘Emotional resilience’ have been hot topics lately. Studies show that those who are emotionally ’smart’, are headhunted for jobs, great in relationships and more apt at handling life’s curve-balls. So, what exactly does it mean? The Art of Emotional Mastery There is a lot more to harnessing your feelings than simply controlling them; the actress can...

Love them or hate them, you’re bound to resemble your parents, one way or another. If they were loud, chances are that ‘inside voice’ is not your default-setting. If they were moaners, you may struggle to notice the silver linings in the storms. And that’s okay - we don’t need to resist the way our parents influenced us - whether...

This one-liner has featured in many a household. Sadly, as an accusation. I am yet to hear a husband use it to compliment his wife. On that note: how do you feel about your parents? Pay attention, though - the question is not: “What do you think about your parents", but which emotions do you feel when you think about them?...

You have a physio on speed-dial, and pain-killers in your back pocket. You’ve been to an acupuncturist, a chiro, a reflexologist, an energy-healer, and - to your shame - even tried that horse-cream your grandmother swears by. You follow the latest blogs on ‘living healthy', swallow a handful of ’natural’ supplements with your morning-coffee and spent half of your income...

You are one incredible creature. The discoveries we’ve made in the last couple of decades about how humans work are mind-blowing! For a moment, though, I'd like you to forget what you know about your body: all the illustrations and diagrams on where your lungs are, how your mind looks and what your blood-cells do. Put out of your mind those...

We just love running after extremes, don’t we? Something is either the absolute worst, or heaven on earth. Don’t say it is ‘good in these ways’ and ‘bad in those ways’ : it’s too complex, and our eyes glaze over. But, in the words of Chesterton : "A dead man swings, a live man stands solidly on the ground.” Why chase the...

The Fads are Confusing! It's virtually impossible to stay on top of all the latest fads in nutrition. In the last 60 years, we've already gone full-circle; from whole-fat, to low-fat & and back to "butter is best". So, what is the truth? Why do the "expert" opinions play merry-go-round? (And, what's up with the latest coconut-water craze!?) There's a complex system...

If you grew up in the West, and you often read blogs and Google "how to” strategies, you probably don't need new information. You actually need some advice to apply what you already know. We can Google anything; but turning that information into actions, is a different ball-game. So, we've torn out an action-page from our workshops, and posted it up...

He makes eye-contact. Darn it! You know his face, but — like so many others — you have forgotten his name. Oh no! He’s coming over. You put on an exaggerated smile, which probably has more of a deer-in-headlights look, and dive straight in: “Heeeeey! How aaaaare you!?” Still blank. No name. Was it James? Michael? Hmmm. In fact, you don’t even know where you’re...

Your brain is the most powerful computer on the planet. It's also squirrel somewhat distractable. For instance, it only takes squirrel you a moment to recognize the word that does not belong. However, you still squirrel cannot stop yourself from: Slowing down, to make sense of the unusual word Actually reading the squirrel word, and creating a mental image of...